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Old May 25, 2022, 09:06 PM
Quietmind 2 Quietmind 2 is offline
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Originally Posted by SlumberKitty View Post
The male to female ratio at my workplace heavily favors the males. So when we had dessert at 2 o'clock break, the three females (myself included) served the males. This is how it is every time. It's like we are stuck in these societal roles. I declined dessert and came back to my office after I was done serving, but I saw my female coworker cleaning up the mess after everyone was done. I don't know. Today I am just sort of over it. I don't know why everyone just can't serve themselves....potluck style.
I'd be really annoyed. In my previous full-time job, some meeting rooms had coffee dispensers with paper cups and littl stirrers, but once, a male colleague said I was expected to SERVE coffee. I snapped at him, saying people can serve themselves.

Then when I moved to another department, where there was a more even ratio of gender and corporate hierarchy, everyone did their bit.

I really didn't like one particular boss I had because he'd ignore every suggestion I made, but immediately praised my male colleague when he said the same thing (dude didn't credit me either).

Boss gave me a poor performance grade because I was "too quiet" in meetings. He also felt me being the only admin staff for 15-ish people was "too low level work" (Actually that was my job, and I didnt go to college) PLUS my own projects (above my pay grade) wasn't good enough.

I hate admin work now, and struggled with doing it (since my brain is fried and I've extensive memory problems) during an occupational therapy assessment.
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