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Incompatibility of relationship goals is just as much an incompatibility as anything else can be. It is what it is & is not something that can be talked into.
I know personally after a long bad marriage, my independence is the most valuable thing I could have even IF I would ever find the right guy. I have made a comfortable, stable life for myself. Enjoying someone's company is a whole lot different than connecting at a level of merging lives or marriage. Having my own little farm as my own retreat is definitely what I need & it was the only thing that helped me heal (along with the best therapist who helped me understand what I went through) That alone time is definitely a necessity for me....maybe the same for her
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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