Happens to me all the time!
An example. Yesterday we got a new baby bearded dragon lizard shipped to us from Florida and she arrived before my husband returned from the pet store with needed items for her enclosure. I opened the small plastic container she had been shipped in and set it in the terrarium to let her out when she was ready. By the time he returns, she is already exploring. When he saw this he said, "oh, you already put her in there". All he meant was he had hoped to get back before she arrived and I took it to mean he was pissed that I didn't keep her in the container until he got home and my blood boiled.
My therapist said I need to stop doing this though even she admitted it was easier said than done.
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