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Originally Posted by eskielover
If you know you are leaving & know why, why does it matter if he cares....that is part of why you are leaving, why would you expect anything different unless hoping your behavior will get him to care?
I kept hoping my husband would change. I moved into my own wing of our house....his behaviors just got me more angry until I was actually seeing red (thought it was only a saying before that) by the time I really moved. Seriously, 2100 miles apart was the only thing that saved me or him at that point
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It’s not about wanting him to change. It’s about someone ACTING like they care when they dont. It’s an asshole pushing you down in the playground but bringing you an ice pack and asking if youre okay oblivious to the fact that THEY caused it. It’s the acknowledgment. It’s about every individual that fkd me over in my life thus far and I am always expected to be the bigger person and walk away. Dont be angry, don’t be upset, dont yell. It’s bs. THATS why. People get to continue ****ing others over but each time being expected to walk away from the situation with no exchange of words.
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