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May 27, 2022, 08:28 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,082
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Originally Posted by Bat_Orchid90
It’s not about wanting him to change. It’s about someone ACTING like they care when they dont. It’s an asshole pushing you down in the playground but bringing you an ice pack and asking if youre okay oblivious to the fact that THEY caused it. It’s the acknowledgment. It’s about every individual that fkd me over in my life thus far and I am always expected to be the bigger person and walk away. Dont be angry, don’t be upset, dont yell. It’s bs. THATS why. People get to continue ****ing others over but each time being expected to walk away from the situation with no exchange of words.
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I am not being the bigger person when I walk away from people like that, I am being the SMARTER PERSON. I am not, not angry. If I weren't ANGRY OR UPSET, I wouldn't leave.
They are going to continue ****inging you over if you stay no matter what you say anyway cause that is WHO THEY ARE. Walking away is WISDOM nothing more or less. BTW.....I yelled cause that is how I responded to an A**hole & even that doesn't make a difference except it allowed me to let the steam off rather than hold it inside. I figured, you make me miserable, I will return the favor. In the end, walking away was the ONLY WISE THING I did in that marriage
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