Hugs to all of you!

I think it's normal to be concerned about what's going on in a Ts life some. My T is usually very open about whatever is going on, so I don't have to wonder. I really appreciate that. Sometimes it can backfire though, like "I have to cancel our phone call, I gotta see a patient at that time" really backfired. But in a way, it also made me somewhat more secure, I think it's important to state the truth while not being hurtful. For me it wouldn't work if a T didn't want to say something at all, we're both humans and our lives exist after all...
However, I don't think Dr. T is upset about it too much LT, it seems he has a very different interpretation of 10 steps to NY compared to some of us!