If a guy doesn't contact you and gives you the silent treatment, it means they are not interested. You should have moved on. The fact that you kept chasing him and apologising(?!) only served to inflate his ego.

Also, while he was disrespecting you on the phone you should have hung up. He might, again, have seen weakness/neediness because you were still willing to take it. The fact you stayed on the line and kept trying to engage and reach out to him gave him permission to continue acting like a jerk.