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Originally Posted by Rive.
If a guy doesn't contact you and gives you the silent treatment, it means they are not interested. You should have moved on. The fact that you kept chasing him and apologising(?!) only served to inflate his ego.
Also, while he was disrespecting you on the phone you should have hung up. He might, again, have seen weakness/neediness because you were still willing to take it. The fact you stayed on the line and kept trying to engage and reach out to him gave him permission to continue acting like a jerk.
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I didn't put in the whole story on here.
But basically when we first matched i didnt show much interest in him. He actually pursued me...for whatever reason i was busy at that point in time. He kept repeating the fact he doesn't want to be a texting pen pal anyway thereafter he mentioned us meeting up multiple times. But it didnt happen because of the pandemicm etc. He was fine meeting during the pandemic whereas i wasnt.
So anyway given the history when we finally had a videocall and he asked to meet again and asked me when id be free for coffee, i thought unlike the other times i would actually put in some effort this time and try to meet. I only apologised because of how he asked to meet lots of times in the past and i didnt really do anything about it, but that time (videochat) a few weeks went past because unfortunately things came up and i also wasnt well. So i apologised in a text and called him. But he dismissed me.