But the most ironic thing about it is..the whole time it was him saying he doesn't want to be a penpal. Insinuating im treating him as a pen pal.
From the beginning he asked me to meet him a minimum of 6 times. But either due to the pandemic or various other reasons i didn't say yes or didnt follow up on what he was saying.

He kept repeating he wants to settle down etc. I didn't once mention those terms about settling down it was him

When it came to the time we had a video call, yet again it was him who brought up us meeting not me.
I only apologised because he told me to find a place ( coffee shop) as he was going to come to me and he's about an hour away. So essentially it wss upto me to pick a place.
He asked me how long i can stay out for, if i have a curfew etc.. asides from all that he was extra flirty and showed tonnes of interest.
At the end of the call he said we've finally broken the ice as it was the first time we'd seen each other via videochat. As previously it was only phonecalls.
I took about two and a half weeks, nearly three weeks to get back to him, only because I'd be come a little busy after our call, was ill aswell for a few days.
When i eventually called he purposely cut my calls short. As in they went to voicemail after a few rings.