How did he chase you if you two have never even met? You can’t go by what people say. Go by their actions. He says a lot of things but does nothing. Stop contacting him and chasing him. And it’s been years. He only initiated in the beginning. After that he showed zero interest but you keep going after him while he continued being disinterested and rude about it.. Move on. No need to analyze him. Focus on figuring out why you wanted to keep going after him. Be more careful next time