I just went by what you shared that you were the one initiating but ok you didn’t chase him but you don’t even know him, never met so It’s not worth your time. You’ll never have an answer why he does what he does. We can only analyze our own behaviors, not other people’s. Especially strangers. Phone conversations mean nothing. Apparently after all these long talks it didn’t help you to figure him or his intentions out as he turned out to be nasty and disrespectful. Words mean nothing. He wants to settle down? He doesn’t even know you. You can’t believe everything people say. It’s a waste of time talking to strangers for hours, at the end they turn out to be not who you thought they were. Like this guy.