Well, that certainly is a tough spot to be in. I think that you should do what makes YOU feel better. It is not about the T's and their wants, but what YOU feel better doing.
If you like doing both, then continue. If you think you can do with only going to one or the other every other week, then do that.

I hope you are able to come to a decision that works best for you. Maybe you could even talk to your T's about how much this is bothering you? They are here to help you, not cause you more distress or confusion



BJ