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Old May 30, 2022, 07:34 AM
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Originally Posted by Holly Golightly 3 View Post
Thank you for being concerned. When he harmed his mother, he was either drunk or high...he lies so much that I don't know what to believe. He has manipulated me so much. This is the 2nd time I have been pregnant by him...so I feel as though some higher power really wants us to be together...or I am just that unlucky. He knows I am pregnant, and he hasn't even really asked how I am feeling...he doesn't check in on me and he won't talk about things with me. Am I asking for too much for him to be considerate and at least ask how my health is or if I am having bad symptoms or anything? I just can't believe he doesn't even care about me or the situation.
Again, pay attention to his actions over his words.

No offense, but you're almost excusing his behavior towards his mother here - do you hear yourself? This man is dangerous. It's entirely unacceptable that he tried to harm his own mother - high, drunk or not. That could have been you and your unborn baby. Who knows what this man is capable of doing.

It doesn't matter that he doesn't show he cares.... this man is no good. And this is the way he behaves.

I urge you to leave him ASAP. Get support. Get help. But leave.
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Last edited by Have Hope; May 30, 2022 at 07:51 AM.
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