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Here is a clue you might want to think about from a guy I dated a few times in college. We didn't have the same values so it was a mutual decision to go separate ways.....but our last conversation was about how he broke up with girls who didn't see it as mutual. Guys (& women) can use this strategy when they have decided not what I want but the other person hasn't gotten the message yet from just plain actions between them.
He told me many times he would just make the girl mad at him & then she is the one who wants to break up. His reason was that it saved a lot of emotional behavior out of the girl since at that point it was her idea. That always stuck with me because I was into observing behavior & could see it in other relationships I was observing. Maybe a rather dysfunctional way of doing it....but his logic was sound (for either party)
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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