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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Re-read your original post. When you were supposed to get together, he ignored your calls. You said you called him four times, and he ignored. Then you contacted him again, then again a few months later. He's a jerk, yes, but you chased him when he did not show interest.
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True. He repeatedly didn’t pick up the phone and didn’t answer to any messages. It had to be a clear sign that he isn’t interested and that it’s time to move on. Saying that he was the one doing the chasing is very erroneous. It is not how it works. If people don’t respond, they are not interested, it’s unwise to keep pushing. It’s not excusing his rude behavior when he finally picked up the phone of course. He should have just texted that he isn’t interested and perhaps block OP as she just kept calling him. No need to be rude over the phone