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Old May 30, 2022, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Quietmind 2 View Post
Mhm, and I'd like to add that I feel there's ethical ways for a therapist to tell a client they need more than what the therapist can offer, even if it hurts the client to hear that.

That includes appropriate referrals if they can't or don't want to train to expand their scope of practice, in order to become what the client needs.

Not that I'm completely agreeing with Dr T, because I feel there's probably better ways for him to be less...shaming...?

My first therapist was harmful in just a handful of sessions in ways I still struggle with today, but the best thing he did for me was to refer me on, second thing being that he told me why although he kept it vague.

He said I needed a higher level of care due to my psychological and emotional issues, and made a referral.

My subsequent therapist was a clinical psychologist who also recognised the limit of her scope of practice.

I do agree that they can tell clients this, and it's probably best to do so early on. With Dr. T, I tried to make it very clear that I'd likely have some sort of transference for and/or attachment to him, and that if he couldn't deal with that, I'd prefer him to let me know early on. At one point, maybe 6 months or a year in, when he seemed bothered by it, it especially upset me because I had warned him. He could have just sent me elsewhere in the beginning.
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