I agree, so many helpful and caring folks here and I appreciate you all, and have also found a new perspective on different things through posting here. A lot of times I try to respond to posts but then doubt myself and don't end up posting because I'm always so worried about saying the wrong thing and offending somebody. Just want y'all to know that I do care and hope that pressing the 'hugs' button is at least a little helpful even if I don't type anything. I am working on trusting myself more.