@~Christina

We’re definitely not staying long at my nieces party! There might not even be food, just cake. So yeah. My SIL has been trying to have this party since april so we must go! The other problem is my niece has a lot of emotional and behavioral problems. She was adopted when she was five by my SIL and BIL and bo one knows the full extent of what she’s been through. Her mother is an addict, we know that, and apparently she was with an ultra Christian/jehova’s witness family for 2 years before they unceremoniously kicked her out with no reason given. Obviously there’s severe trauma. I don’t blame her for having such problems. It just makes it hard because she is very aggressive while CR is passive so he gets bullied by her and I’m worried she may hit or kick him if he doesn’t do what she wants. She’s so big for her age and he’s small, they’re mismatched in height and strength so she could do real damage if she loses control. She hasn’t yet but she has hit/kicked her parents in front of us so I can’t rule it out.