I find this thread rather interesting. I can't help but notice, how this all started with OP being confused and not understanding that guys blow up.And slowly progressed to OP explaining away( his feeling rejected or everyone has anger...)...so on and so forth.OP while disagreeing with some of the posters ,comes across as she already knew all answers.She says she has an insight into guys blow up in her posts( his ego being bruised and things like that).Did any one else notice she somewhat answered her own question?We responded depending on the info she told us.I think she does know the real reason to why that happened. I believe we donot have the entire picture .She even stated in a reply to me that she thinks guy is a complete sociopath.( Refer to post: 31.)

Now my question to banana mist is.....If you thought he was a sociopath, you definitely saw red flags all along. Did you? Then why call ,text or WhatsApp the guy ?Why did you kept communicating for so long? Why call him on the fateful day to follow up on that coffee date? It didn't make sense to me.If I were you I would run a mile from a sociopath and you were running towards him.Hmmmmmm. You many times contradicted your own statements.I also find it strange that you stayed long enough on the phone to hear a lot of derogatory terms hurled at you.Why????? Why not cut the call short and block his %&#.You said you have self respect in response to another poster.I would like to hear your definition of self respect.

And finally my suggestion,
When you are truly interested in a guy,meet him in person as soon as you are comfortable, so that you get to know him for real.Please donot waste years on strangers.