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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
...I did say today with the check-in texts that it seemed like he just expected me to psychically know when they became too much for him. How it was particularly difficult for me because it was something I had even checked in about. That's been an issue in my outside life, too, if I check in with, say, a friend or my H on whether something is OK, they say it's fine, and then at some random time they suddenly decide it's not fine, and I had no way of knowing that. It's harder for me because I did try to make sure it was OK.
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So - are you not picking up on social cues?
Also, why is it "harder on YOU" in particular? Is there anger there? Like you called dibs and now the other person is saying you cant have a permanent dibs?
If its "just" aspergers, i would think one would be oblivious of the other's irritation, and not particularly care either. But maybe thats just how Sheldon wouldve reacted! Okay and me. People do NOT like me playing robot. Even if i tell them, im not playing.