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Originally Posted by Mendingmysoul
See you again said...the abuse and aggression I only witnessed in the last conversation. How does this sentence means you have seen red flags all along in his words and behaviors that you suspected him tobe a sociopath all along.A lot of times again and again you mentioned ,he was flirty,jovial in all the conversations except the last one.You even stated he was pleasant for some time during that call.He was rude towards the end of the call.So my question is how is he a sociopath ? You said you were into psychology,then you must know it is a serious label to give .Right?
According to you,a person talks on phone flirting with you,cracking jokes for hours at a time,for years.You guys talk about work ,world problems and weather for hours.Oh,I forgot,guy also taks about wanting to go grab a coffee with you again and again.And then on one fine morning that call happens where you call for a follow up, but don't mention anything about coffee ,talk again about weather,world problems and the guy is pleasant for some time then suddenly snaps.You wait and listen until the storm calms down. And you give him the label ...Sociopath.Wow.
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He may not be. But then again im not ruling it out either.
I've seen very subtle signs of things he does and says. The last conversation where he blew up, that was very extreme, his treatment of me. And for what. Obviously id nott seen him go into a rage like this before, is what i meant. But doesn't mean he was perfect other times.
The last call we had, he was talking about his work in general and how some women may be talking too much but he can quickly shut them up by using his authority and power. Then he very randomly said to me he will slam me against the wall and push me down against the ground. I have no idea the meaning behind that, but i just took it as his weird way of flirting in the end. He also said i was continually undermining him, which i dont remember doing. Oh lets not forget how when we first started that video call he stuck his middle finger up at me, as i said something ( can't remember exactly what it was). Im not even a particularly rude or outspoken person most of the time, so the stuff he was coming out with was strange. If i ever told him good things about myself, for example an achievement, he would be quick to shut it down as if its nothing special. But if it was him he would probably go on about it and show how amazing he thinks he is.
Anyway i could go on and on, but you just pick up things when you speak to someone often. Things which may seem off but you tell yourself they're not anything that bad to cut them off completely.