My pay is public record as well but we are encouraged to not share our reviews as it might breed resentment. My reviews are always excellent and I don’t want people to know that because someone who doesn’t have a good review might feel bad. In addition if I didn’t get a good review, I’d not want to know who got good ones because I’d probably be hurt.

I do understand that it’s your choice to share but it seems that it caused anger and resentment in your “friend”. It’s not uncommon. People don’t want to know that someone does so much better than them.

She didn’t really strike me as a friend though but rather as unhinged co worker. No one normal calls 50 times until you pick up. She is unstable.