Thanks, EM--it helps to know the vagueness would bother you as well. Maybe that's more of what it is for me?

I mean, the vagueness has been a theme in my therapy lately, too--the sudden switch to virtual a couple weeks ago (that then led to my email related to the vagueness that led to rupture part 2), plus the reason he was out yesterday--which he told me about a couple weeks in advance, but he just said, "I have something in my schedule that I can't move." And I suppose the non-vagueness, but still session disruption, of his wife calling about the tornado warning and telling him to leave his office (I still never talked to him about that).