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Old Jun 08, 2022, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted by ArmorPlate108 View Post
I've been agoraphobic. Like couldn't even walk down the short driveway to the mailbox. Maybe once you are, you're always somewhere on the spectrum?

That was more than a decade ago,, and after A LOT of CBT, I now consider myself a homebody.

I prefer to be home nowadays, but if I need to or want to go out, I don't think much about it. Back then, it was a struggle to get myself out of the house, even when I worked outside the house. There was a lot of mental preparedness beforehand.

Looking back, the biggest issue was that the agoraphobia was secondary to an anxiety disorder, so even at home, I wasn't always on a good place mentally. Now when I'm at home, I'm just at home, not usually too much anxiety.

So, in my opinion, I guess it depends. If you feel good and it's not holding you back from something else, then what does it matter?
This is exactly how I am it's so similar I swear I wrote this haha. I've never been diagnosed with agoraphobia but I know I suffer from it by the shear terror I experience leaving my house. Like you said, even trips to the mailbox is hard. Hang in there. Glad to know I'm not alone in this though. No one understands so I'm happy someone out there does.
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