Dear T,
This seemed like a weird PS, so separate note. Are you possibly autistic? (like what was formerly known as Asperger's syndrome). The way you said a couple things today regarding it being difficult for therapists on the spectrum and also how it's difficult for people who get diagnosed after their teens, as then they're just the class weirdo--it made me raise an eyebrow in my mind. And it would make a lot of sense in some ways. Of course, it's nothing I'd ever ask you in real life, and it doesn't matter if you are or aren't. This isn't something I'm going to get hung up on. Just a "hm...."
Love,
LT