all above rights acknowledged and agreed with..but we do not have the right to frighten others with clear references to ending our lives when our site friends are not qualified to handle this situation.....i, myself have the right to not be subjected to the trauma of another persons contemplation of that..when i know that i can't and am not qualified to deal with it in an effective way...let's be kind to one another...this site is about supporting....and let's try to seek the appropriate resource of help for the level of need...not hurt our fellow site members if our level of distress is beyond their assistance capabilities.....