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Jun 12, 2022, 04:50 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Originally Posted by divine1966
I get it.
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I am just surprised everyone but me thinks it’s a perfectly common and fine thing to do
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No, not everyone does. Not at all. I think that part of how we feel about our boundaries is about how much personal power we feel safe with, or not. In general, I don't need a lot of personal power - but then I don't always have what I suppose are "generally acceptable" boundaries. I'm big on the spirituality of loving and giving - BUT I have often found myself terribly hurt and traumatized for that, I admit it.
And it looks like this current thread has been broken away from the original, old thread. I felt kind-of sorry for that OP because she was treated harshly by some people for feeling the need to repeatedly drive past her T's house (which truthfully is quite a bit different than my own situation).
You don't have to refrain from posting. There's nothing anyone can say that surprises me or angers me, it's just that some people articulate their perspective better than I can. I'm willing to hear all sides - with the knowledge that ultimately, this burning wildfire is between M. and I and that only she and I can work with it, or not.
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