I couldn't handle this on an ongoing basis. Not only is it unfair on a practical level, but it would also bring up thoughts about not being important or worth caring about, which is the exact kind of thing I go to therapy work on. I can handle the occasional disruption because I am a reasonable person, but that translates to maybe once or twice a year.

I would talk to the T about what is happening and what isn't working for me. She may not be able (or possibly willing) to change anything, which would be good information to have. But it kind of seems like this T hasn't been a good fit from the beginning, if I'm remembering right? I know finding and meeting new therapists is really difficult, but it's probably worth it if you want to find somebody you can feel comfortable opening up to and who is more careful about preventing disruptions.