Compared to the people in my life in the past that were unable to truely care in any genuine way, then I know T cares. BUT its not that she just cares about me, its that she is capable of being caring in all her relationships and doesn't have a "dont care/do care" chart, shes just a genuine humanbeing who is real in all her relating. I've had to learn what caring feels like, and I think one can only learn that if theres someone there to care.