PPatty, not trying to offend, I had a young lady cleaning house for me once and she was getting good pay, behind my back she was telling ppl what a lazy sloppy house I kept, this cost her a good paying job and a friend, just be careful who you gossip about so it don't bite you in the butt
another job related friendship lost was when I was a womans supervisor in a mental health drop in center we were great friends, then when I was leaving my job it got back to me that she was telling ppl that I was having relations with some of the male service providers that brought there ppl to the drop in center, totally false , friendship lost