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Originally Posted by ArtieTheSequal
H used to get really frustrated with me when I would tell him something L had said in a session and say how it seemed right to me and he would say "I told you that too! Why don't you believe me?"
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Good to know it's not just me!
I think sometimes it's having someone on the outside explaining it. And with my T--I imagine it was the same with L--it's that they might essentially be saying the same thing as our spouses, but the way they explain it is different, so it hits us in a different way. Or it might be that they're the second person to say that thing, so it starts to sink in more.