i asked. SHould i be able to tell from his actions? Yes He wants me to reach conclusions but i dont have that skill. Asking gave me the line with which to connect the dots.

his actions? well.. he hasn't kicked me out or walked away.. he has always returned my calls if i ask him to... he believes me... he tells me he is proud of me... he has worked very hard to help me... he is honest and genuine.. he has never flinched about anything i have ever asked... he gave me voicemails to help me in hard times when he is not there... Everyone says he is putting far more time and effort into being there and being solid for me than he could possibly do for all his clients... i suppose that implies that i am somehow cared about?

i dont know.. after that it becomes hazy and hard to decipher. How can i tell if an action is an action that implies caring vs just an action relative to general character? Something might make someone a nice person, or a thoughtful one.. but it may not imply caring about me. How could i tell?