Ah L, once again, I step outside myself a little and looking in can see that it all comes down to patience.... and the fact that I have little to none. Things are getting worked out. Fridge repairman scheduled for tomorrow. Car loan almost in place now, car buying will likely be this afternoon. Sister thing, just takes time and there's not a damn thing I can do about it anyway. The work thing is going to be okay, I just have to give myself grace and time to adjust to it. The stomach virus has just about run its course I am feeling better this morning. And soon the big thing will be over with and h will be on the road to recovery.