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Originally Posted by black-roses
So this person I haven't talked to in ages asked me "Are you still single I thought you'd be married by now" and it just like reminded me that I'm single and how I long for a boyfriend and want kids one day and now I feel bummed out. Coz I feel like guys don't like me and I will be single forever. I told this guy I liked him a few months ago and I got no reply. Like anyway I don't know why people have to ask me that so that I have to remember that I'm single and no guy likes me. I mean thanks for reminding me about my ****** love life.
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I don't mean to hijack your thread with my own feelings and struggles, but I'm in the same exact boat that you're in. I'm 38 years old, still single and with no kids. I don't know why, but no man finds me attractive. I want a husband so bad, but whenever I fall for someone.. they're just not interested in me and I don't know why. The struggles to find a mate in the human world is so damn complicated because I don't understand the rules of dating and romance....What to say, and what not to say... and what to do and what not to do.. I just want to be myself.. not what some relationship therapist on YouTube wants me to do.
anyhow I digress.. Just letting you know that you're not alone
I don't know why people ask that question.. I don't think they're trying to be rude or anything. Maybe surprise of your status because they think that you're a good person? Who knows.