So sorry to hear what you are going through with your Dad. My Mum had COPD, it's scary watching someone you love struggling to breathe. Hopefully they will make him more comfortable with the anti-anxiety meds.

Hindsight is a perfect science. You did what you thought was right at the time with regards to contacting his sister's family. Please don't beat yourself up about it. Even if he doesn't agree, your Dad will know you were only doing it from a place of love.

My thoughts are with you.

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