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Jun 17, 2022, 09:16 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Originally Posted by Nammu
Beth, It almost sounds as if they think by saying they love you that somehow that makes her behavior ok? “Oh I have the feels for you, so I can go on behaving badly cause I feel you!” How weird.
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It's certainly possible. Also, both T's are strongly committed to their spiritual beliefs, which in some ways I am comfortable with. Yet, in some ways I also feel like their spiritual beliefs are a bit too New-Agey/idealistic. I think they "love" everybody because they believe that love sends out positive energy to all humans (and all beings), which will make the world a better place.
I know they are both very caring people. After all the therapy I've done with Mary I can understand how she has loving feelings for me. I think that that is why, in part, her boundaries with me are "murky."
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