This is actually something I asked for from my T once, like in suggesting a couple things that might help when he was away (this was more recently than the whole stone incident). I mentioned it a couple times in a couple different sessions, though I don't know that I ever came out and said, "Would you be willing to do this?" I got the sense he wasn't comfortable with it, so I dropped it. But maybe he would have been OK, was just waiting for me to ask directly?

I have no voicemails from him (he only ever texts or emails), so there's not even some random scheduling thing I could listen to for comfort/connection. Ex-MC had left a really caring voicemail once in response to one of my texts that I listened to periodically (pre-rupture), and it helped.

He did send me a (requested) email at one point reassuring me that he cares (along with some other kind things) that I've looked back on before. But I think there's something different about hearing someone's voice.

So I think it's worth trying, just to see if it helps?