There is definitely a big part of me that wants to give it a try and it’s helpful to know that it has been beneficial to others who have experienced it.
I guess what I’m concerned about is the fact that it might make the longing to be with him in person even worse, and if it didn’t work, my T getting frustrated as nothing is helping and I’m scared that might lead to him rejecting me. I recognise that these fears are me catastrophising the situation, but they are there.
LT my T is also the same and we have never spoke on the phone and he’s never even called my number before so I think that’s possibly why it feels so weird. I have thought about asking him to hand write something in the past which I think I would have found comforting, so perhaps a voicemail would be helpful.
I guess I’m just curious and a bit apprehensive about what he would say. If he didn’t say what I would want him to say (lots of kind, caring, reassuring and comforting stuff) then this might make things worse as I would likely be hurt and possibly annoyed.