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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom
At this point there's not much I can do. He's done and I understand. He's dealt with me for 21 years. Even if I apologize and I have it doesn't take away what I said. He has essentially been my care taker the whole time. I understand being done. We can't argue for life about whether I've taken my meds and eat. He no longer wants to be the villain or controlling. He's going to stay for awhile while we sort everything out but I don't see coming back from this. I said things that really really hurt him. I went for his insecurities. So he's done.
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I’m so sorry. If he’s invested this much time it isn’t so easily tossed aside. There’s something there and only requires you to say you need him. You do, right? We say horrible things to the ones we love to spare them the worst of us, or so we think. 21 years, he isn’t going to give up on you unless you make him or let him. Through all your faults and his as long as the relationship isn’t abusive it helps you in The long run. As much as we like to think we can be islands that outcome is isn’t good.