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Victoria'smom · Jun 18, 2022, 05:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Random 503

I’m so sorry. If he’s invested this much time it isn’t so easily tossed aside. There’s something there and only requires you to say you need him. You do, right? We say horrible things to the ones we love to spare them the worst of us, or so we think. 21 years, he isn’t going to give up on you unless you make him or let him. Through all your faults and his as long as the relationship isn’t abusive it helps you in The long run. As much as we like to think we can be islands that outcome is isn’t good.

I'm going to tell him I need him. As of right now we're sleeping separately but he took the couch so he does still care. We're not telling anyone that we've ended as of yet. We're both adults so hopefully we can come to a solution. I have hope because he hasn't left right away. Our guests know something is up but everything was through messaging. So there was no verbal fight.