@divine1966, SO sad. My sister is OK-ish, and my mother is holding together. I am spending the day with mom today. We're taking a long-ish drive up north to a nice town on the ocean that has great shopping. My mom and I both love to window shop and be near the ocean.

My mom will need our company in the next coming weeks and months. I am prepared to switch gears a bit to spend more time with mom. She told me before he died that she had never been alone in her life. This will be a HUGE adjustment for mom, so I want to make sure she doesn't fall into a deep depression.