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Originally Posted by cool09
I have been trying to change the last 40 years. I do things and I don't get any pleasure. All the therapist says is take a walk and watch the birds, watch the boats, look at the water, ride your bike. Bike riding is no fun, it's just work. I can't remember the last time I enjoyed myself. That's the rut that I'm in.
All that psychologists do is stare at me. I had one psychologist stare at me for 3 mths when I was bedridden in the hospital 35 yrs ago.
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This is not your fault. A therapist should be able to help someone find motivation/pleasure -that is literally something they say they can do. The therapist you had was just wrong and horrible.
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