The therapists are the ones saying it is unethical. So many of them spout such crap. Clients just play in the ball park therapists set up. So it is on their head -not that of a client.

I doubt a therapist would bother to look up a client mostly because of how lazy therapists are rather than from any imagined noble concerns. Clients are not often unique - read through threads without looking at the names and it all blurs together and the same themes come up over and over and over and over and..... I believe therapists saying such idiotic things about ethics is to lie to and manipulate clients rather than those people simply admitting they don't care