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Originally Posted by mote.of.soul
It's something to be mentally prepared for and may pay to make a decision in advance about what you'll do if it happens. Otherwise you might wind up on the merry-go-round of recrimination and reconciliation for too long unnecessarily. It's like a self inflicted pain that only you can feel. Part of the human condition obviously but doesn't need to happen. So I guess I'm talking about setting a boundary in place. Thank you. All the best.
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I think this is especially pertinent. I have found myself not ready for what turned out to be underfunded effort to rekindle a relationship by blowing the person off and giving them a dose of "FY" when really I spent time years later wondering what could have been...but also you might consider not letting a person back in who is only going to re-offend.
Hope things work out for you.