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Originally Posted by NP_Complete
We had a phone session just yesterday, so this desire for support is making me feel pretty needy right now. My concern is solely about being a burden. And tomorrow is his birthday and I feel he deserves to not have to deal with me right now.
Physically, I haven't felt bad even when I was in hospital. One of the medicines I'm taking is a vasodilator and it makes me intermittently feel kind of lightheaded, but other than that, I'm fine. Physically. Mentally is another story. My BP is still quite high. It was 177/110 earlier. This feels hopeless and I feel like such a loser. This is all my fault because I'm fat. Everything physically wrong with me right now is because I've been an emotional eater for years. My ex called me fat all the time and it feels like the world is judging me and finding me lacking right now. I find myself lacking.
By the way, I was going to respond to your comment about the paper you were editing with NP-Complete/NP-Hard in it, but then all this happened. I guess you know where my user name comes from now.
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it’s not fault your np even if you can’t see it for yourself right now. you need as much support as you need right now and that’s okay. whatever it takes to keep you safe。
i’ve been everything from a size 10-18. i always felt safer when i was heavier. it’s a form of protection and the majority of women on the tv my 600lbs life have a history of sexual abuse. you’re doing the best you can in this moment. you’re not a loser because you have high blood pressure. there’s always also secondary causes as well.