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Originally Posted by Blue_Bird
It’s like a constant monologue. I want a break from it.
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It might be counterintuitive advice but meditation helps me step out of the inner chatter for a while. But it has to be a very specific type of meditation. Like there's this one thing I learned called the STOP skill (it comes from DBT if you're interested in reading more about it). What it is basically is Stopping, Taking a step back, Observing, and Proceeding mindfully.
I like to think of the stopping part as just literally freezing in my tracks and not doing anything.
The taking a step back doesn't need to be physically taking a step back although it can be. I usually just take a big deep breath.
Then the observing part is like, hm, what is going on in my thoughts right now nonjudgmentally.
Then proceeding mindfully is like, hm, what should I do next.
I hope that helps some.