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Originally Posted by divine1966
Are you naturally full of energy and charming or you act to get the girls to like you? Well are they boring people with no depth? Otherwise wouldn’t there be something you’d still have to talk to them about or do things together? Are you looking for a particular type? Someone like your mother or opposite of your mother?
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No, I'm only charming and full of energy toward girls I'm attracted to or people I need for other purposes (for example work). Those folks are interesting and attractive! The problem is I "go off" once they start to like me, no matter how cool they are.
Those girls I hang around with were the type I was looking for. Still, my goal seemed to be to get them to like me and ditch them.
I'm looking for a way that can break that pattern because it sucks!