I get what you mean AliceKate. It makes sense. I do like this one and we are working well together. We don't have a lot of problems. We just seem to have opposite issues. At least on the surface. I am legit not trying to be rude, just stating a fact and as others have said in other posts, I don't know what her lifestyle is like. But I'm trying to say what I feel and try to be honest without coming off as offensive. She did say right before the whole green light thing that therapy was a safe space. Then after I said it I kinda felt like it wasn't.