Thanks for your examples LT.

Yes. I need to know what her limits are now. Like a year ago she gave me her updated schedule, but I think it might be different now.

Her life has changed a lot too. She did get married this year. However, she doesn’t live with her H yet. He's going to training for his job and they can't be together yet. When he gets out, that's when they'll know where he'll be assigned and where they'll move. The move is like a haunting fear of mine.

She also purchased 50% of her business, so now on top of everything else, she had that work to do.

She's a busy woman. I get that. She has a full life, and I am truly happy for her. But I feel like she no longer has time for me and she's not admitting it to me or herself. So I keep hitting her limits. And it hurts.