Hi starling flock.
I found that I could only gain true confidence when I made the choice that I knew to be right in my heart, often a choice I had known to be the right one but had been avoiding the truth of it through all kinds of mental acrobatics.
Confidence is knowing yourself, your needs and the most tricky of all, your wants.
No amount of advice from others can give you true confidence, the choice is all yours and that’s what gives you the strength.
We need to be in our own corners, have our own backs, love ourselves and protect ourselves.
Do what is in your heart starlingflock, it sounds like it’s time for a change.